Because of all that I’ve seen couples who got divorced, even when there were kids involved.
I noticed that those kind of relationships seem to work out better if they live in his home country and not in Japan.
In relationships where the man is foreign I noticed that they mostly speak his native language.
Although they live in Japan and sometimes even have children together who also speak Japanese, the foreign guys don’t / can’t speak Japanese.
stay home, take care of the kids, always pour new alcohol into his empty glass etc.). Before we start talking about “Dating in Japan” one thing should be crystal clear: If you’ve ever been to Japan you might have noticed that there’s a tremendous number of (often not so handsome) foreign guys walking hand-in-hand with Japanese women.