But I liked his company and the flowing conversations we had. The woman quoted above might not have had any illusions about the fact that the relationship was purely sexual, but I suspect she did have some illusions about just how unlikely it was that her love interest would change his perspective on the relationship. It has been my experience - both personal and vicarious - that the vast majority of women view a casual sexual relationship as a potential stepping stone towards a relationship.

I’m doing my masters in finance, and I work as a barista right now."I moved out to SF not knowing if I was going to get my masters or not, but I wanted to move to the West Coast. I’ve always been pretty active in dating, so I started looking at different platforms two months into living here.""I did Tinder; I did Bumble; and then I waited probably five months until I tried If nothing else, this blog is an outlet for voicing my astonishment at the typical female's ignorance of the male mindset.